Christy Memos

A Letter To 2010 & 2011

2011-12-30T19:53:00.000-08:00

Dear 2010 & 2011,

You rocked me hard. You shook me violently like a ragdoll for months and showed no sign of letting up. You pushed me to my physical, emotional and spiritual limits. It was to the point that I was numb to any emotion and there wasn't any other place to go. I visited multiple counselors, doctors, family, friends, priests, nuns and churches. My job wasn't even a safe zone. I walked in everyday with hate and fear and walked out with self doubt and tears. I felt betrayed and beaten down. I was sick. It was an emotional sickness that cut so deep it made my whole world ill.

I was scared to leave a job in a bad economy because it was required of me to bring my husband in from Mexico. But my happiness was on the line.

Then I got all Eat, Pray, Love up on myself. I decided to get the hell out and dedicated all my time to looking for a new job.....and then, I was laid off. No surprise there. The hatred was written all over my face. Usually losing a job means spiraling down into a deeper hole but this was a blessing from God. I then went to a retreat for 3 days and it was my chance to heal. My wounds slowly callused over and the bleeding slowed down. A month later I was offered 4 different jobs. I picked the best one and it's amazing how different it is. I'm treated like a human. A human with a soul and a mind.

I am thankful for my new job and the retreat. I can only hope that 2013 is way better.

Sincerely,
Christy

I am also thankful for these following happy moments that happened in the past year:

Traveled to Mexico City and stayed with a wonderful family.

Added two new ruins to my "been there done that" list.

Saw my first bull fight in Leon, Gto. Mexico

Became a Godmother at my first Mexican Baptism.

Took a stab at a dream and started a photography business called PhotoBox Studios with my sister.

Took a girls trip to Belize with a good friend after I was laid off.

Ran right into this guy - Gene Simmons on the island of Ambergris Caye, Belize.

Let my sister experience the hipster vibe of Playa del Carmen and the beauty of the Riviera Maya.

Discovered how much I'm in love with cenotes and underground caves!

Took an express trip to Chicago with my mom and sister.

Had a fun anniversary road trip to Kansas City for an art fair.

Took my dog Rico Suave to his first Woofstock. Then we made him do a dog race and he lost bad.

Visiting Our Lady of Guadelupe

2011-12-17T11:03:00.000-08:00

Monday, December 12, was the feast day of Our Lady of Guadelupe and last January I had the honor of visiting her site in Mexico City. To me, it was on the top of my "Mexico City To Do" list. I always enjoy a pilgrimage here and there and this was the biggest yet.

The day started out early on a Wednesday morning. We stopped at a local restaurant for some delicious quesadillas. The morning air that once chilled our skin was warmed with a cup of Mexican hot chocolate. After our appetite was settled, we were off. I was a little nervous. I knew this was a big deal and I expected chaos. I knew how much Our Lady of Guadelupe meant to the Mexican people.

What I saw and felt was much different. There was some chaos but it was in the form of a respected low hum. You heard whispered prayers flowing out of all the chapels and into the courtyard. You saw lines streaming in and out from each building. Birds fluttering here and there. You felt the strong desire of the people to be there with Our Lady. Families in their traditional Mexican clothing gathered on the footsteps of the Cathedral as if just being in the company of this miracle was all that was needed.

To make a long story short:
Spanish missionaries came to Mexico to convert the Aztec Indians and stop their mass killing and offerings on their temples to other gods. One Roman Catholic convert, Juan Diego had visions of a lady on his walks from his village to Mexico City for daily mass. She told him to build a church on the site. So he told the Bishop and of course he was asked to show proof. On one of his last visions, the lady filled his cloak with roses (not in season) for him to take back. When he presented the roses, it was what was imprinted on his cloak that shocked the viewers more than the roses. It was an image of the Virgin in Aztec clothing, pregnant, standing on the moon and in front of the sun, gods that the Aztec worshiped. Our Lady was showing she was higher than those gods. The image then converted millions of indigenous people in what had been the Aztec Empire.

There are many churches on the site but I will only talk about the three main ones. The first one is a small chapel on the hill with a picturesque view of the city. It's walls covered in paintings depicting Juan Diego's story. It was then outgrown and a new one was built below. But because Mexico City is built on a large lake, it has started to slowly sink. As you walk up to the building, it's clearly visible that the ground slopes in ways that can't be healthy to a building. So a new larger Basilica was built right next door, this time supported with underground beams so that it wouldn't sink into the soft ground. It's round shape allows viewers to see the Virgin from no matter where you sit. All around the back, confessionals line the walls. The most I've seen in one church.

Back behind the altar you step down into a small chamber with four moving conveyor belts. They pass from right to left allowing the lines to never stop as the faithful keep their eyes on what's above. Now you can jump on whichever conveyor belt as many times as you like but just don't stop! The security will be right on you telling you to get a move on. It's forever a crowded room.

Besides the original miracle in 1921, Juan Diego's cloak has never even shown signs of wearing down! This cheap textile is only known to last a couple years at best! It has even survived a bombing in 1921. A brass crucifix (pictured above) that was placed in front of it was bent over backwards in the blast while the cloak was kept in perfect shape.

There is no doubt that Juan Diego helped make Mexico the second largest nation of Catholics after Brazil. Pope John Paul II has even visited 5 times and made Diego a saint! He's visited so much, they built him his own platform to speak from on the front of the Basilica. And all around the grounds there were signs of his visits. There is no doubt he too believed there was something special about Our Lady of Guadelupe.

The Mummies of Guanajuato

2011-10-27T20:48:00.000-07:00

Their families were poor, not around or just plain dead. They couldn't pay the grave tax that was required for their loved ones in the ground. The punishment for not paying the tax? Taking the body out of the ground and putting it into a museum for the whole world to see......

Fortunately for the grave diggers, some of the bodies were naturally mummified. The soil conditions and the dry climate of the mountainous areas were perfect for the bodies to dry out and not decompose.

On one of my visits to Guanajuato, Mexico, I thought it was due time to check out these "mummies" every tourist in town had been talking about. What I saw, I was not expecting. There were all kinds of mummies only about 146 years old! Some had all their clothes on while others just their socks. And all the babies! There were case after case of tiny dead babies. Yes, insert dead baby joke here.

Speaking of dead babies, there was even a mother and child mummy. The baby had died during a caesarean section. The mothers stomach was nothing but folded skin and the baby is known as one of the smallest mummies. One other one is said to have been buried alive! Her arms were covering her face and there were scratches on her forehead. Oh and don't forget stab wounds. Gross huh? So gross I took pictures!

But is taking photos and touring a building filled with dried up people that died not that long ago right? And only because their families couldn't afford to pay the grave tax? Don't know. How many years have to pass till it's "okay"? All I know is that this tourist spot has earned a great deal of money for the city and shows it's history and how it's mountains not only produce gold, but VERY interesting mummies. They have stories, lives, even relatives in the case with them. I learned so much more about these people than I would have if they were ancient aztecs.

If you would like to tip toe through the halls of this mummy museum, you can find it in Guanajuato, Gto. Mexico (NW of Mexico City). The closest airport is in Leon and it's about an hour car ride to the town. The city bus also does frequent passes. Happy Halloweeny!

Hotel Review - Riviera Caribe Maya

2011-10-17T20:12:00.000-07:00

Hotel Riviera Caribe Maya, a home away from home. Also a hotel with a very long name. But this hotel surprised me with excellent customer service. From our first steps out of the taxi and into the lobby we were greeted with a smile and an employee that knew exactly who we were. "Are you looking for Javier?" Why yes I was! I was meeting my husband, who had arrived that morning, and our greeter knew we were the two gringas he had been waiting for. Finally, someone that cares about their guests and speaks English! Our room was small but large enough for 3 beds. It was on the first floor and one step away from the refreshing pool. Perfect. No walking necessary. It was like it was our own personal swimming oasis and great for a pool, patio, cerveca sequence on repeat.

This hotel may look small but it packs a good 21 rooms and the ability to make you think you might just be staying at a boutique like hotel. It's beautiful spiral staircase curls around a circular seating area with all the most hipster and gossip magazine for your reading pleasure. Would you expect anything else from Playa? Every room has a working air conditioner, fridge and mini bar. Their suites come with a classy rooftop pool overlooking the city. Now that's a way to chill in style! Internet is free and available at all hours and there is a café right next door for your complimentary breakfast. Keep in mind, it only includes toast and coffee. Not to worry, the menu lists an array of Mexican dishes that range from $5-$8. Very budget friendly and filling.

Location wise, it's one block from 5th Avenue and about a 5 minute walk from the beach. If you are one to complain about noise pollution, Playa may not be the place for you. From early in the morning to late at night we heard music, sport games, traffic and Mariachi bands singing to their hearts content. For us, it added to the atmosphere.

When it came time for us to leave, we had to some how arrange for a trustworthy taxi at 4 a.m. The reliable hotel staff was willing to wake us and have our taxi waiting. That was one less thing to worry about on a hectic travel day. I had a wonderful stay and would be honored to stay again. Maybe this time with the rooftop pool.

Hotel Riviera Caribe Maya
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A Tour Of Chicago's Millennium Park

2011-08-31T21:37:00.000-07:00

10 Things To Do In Chicago With Only 24 Hours

2011-08-10T22:07:00.000-07:00

Last weekend, I took a girls trip with my mom and sister and jetted off to Chicago on a Friday night flight after we all got off work, blood shot eyes and all. We attempted the trip last month but the flight cancelled, so this was our last chance because of conflicting schedules. After we landed, the smell of the subway filled my senses. It was my first time. The two hour subway ride and walk-a-thon through the streets weakened our already frail bodies. We made it in one piece to our beautiful boutique hotel in the heart of the city - The Inn of Chicago. Oh but don't kick up those heels just yet, we had 24 hours of full throttle activities scheduled ahead of us and there wasn't any time penciled in for resting. It was a jammed packed timeline with one goal - see as much of Chicago as possible. On your mark, get set .....

The three of us were only in the Windy City for a Saturday, so seeing everything wasn't really possible. So below, I've come up with a must do list of things to do and see in Chicago if you only had 24 hours to do it. Don't forget your trusty map! Or if your phone works, your GPS.

Here is a list of activities that can all be done in one day if planned accordingly:

1. The Subway -
Ride the subway and people watch. Probably not at 4 am though (trust us). Price: 3 day pass - $14

2. Willis Tower Sky Deck -
Be sure to get there before 9 a.m. or you'll be waiting in line for quite a while. Lines were already out the doors and around the block by 11 am. You can also get a "Fast Pass" for $35 and wait in the express lane. Might be worth it with this full schedule. Price: $17

3. Millennium Park -
Here you will find the famous Cloud Gate and Crown Fountain. Next door you might get lucky and catch an artist showcasing his/her music at the Jay Pritzker Pavilion. It's design will make you wish you had time to catch a full concert. Price: FREE

4. River Boat Cruise -
Tired of walking? Take a a tour of the city's architecture on Chicago's waterways. Heads up! Price: $30

5. Uno -
Chicago's first deep dish pizza restaurant. Be prepared to wait an hour, the pizza is slow cookin. Price: $12 - $22

6. Portillo's -
Dare to eat a mouthful of the Chicago style hotdog? Total man food. Price: $10

7. Art Insititue of Chicago -
Escape the sun and spend a couple hours at this art museum with four floors of art. Maybe you'll be lucky and see a Vincent van Gogh! Price: $18

8. Navy Pier -
Walk down to the Navy Pier and do a little souvenir shopping and take a look at the ocean, I mean Lake Michigan. Or maybe even ride the ferris wheel

9. Locally Owned Restaurant -
Pick a locally owned restaurant in the area and dine like a local and not a tourist. We stepped into a quaint little Armenian Restaurant, named Sayat-Nova, that was located below a fortune teller's studio. The food, environment and service was excellent. Price: $16

10. Innbar Of Chicago -
End the night by sipping on a cocktail at one of the only rooftop bars in the city with one heck of a view. Price: 1 beer $6

You think you could get all this done in one day?

It's Friday!

2011-07-15T19:00:00.000-07:00

Its Friday! I am so tired. I'm beat. My body feels as though it's been tortured. Or was that the "Rip & Ride" YMCA class that did that? Oh well, same difference. Tomorrow will be my first (and only) day off in two weeks till next Saturday. I need another vacation already! This photo illustrates my exact feeling once that 5:00 p.m. whistle blew. Anyways, I'm off to go find my massage slave.

This weeks links:
- Why us travelers hate the 9-5 (funny in a not so funny way)
- Beautiful shots of Havana, Cuba (the architecture!!)
- Hot air balloon goodness (it's on my bucket list)

Holbox Island - The Day I Almost Swam With Whale Sharks

2011-06-29T18:36:00.000-07:00

Right there on the top of my Mexico Bucket List is - swim with whale sharks. And wouldn't you know it, we were down there right when the whale shark season was starting (June-September). I couldn't pass that up. So all three of us jumped into our rental car early in the morning and headed North from Playa del Carmen to an island on the tip of the peninsula called Holbox (pronounced Holbosh) where it was said to be the hot spot. It was a good 4 hour drive because of all the tiny towns with massive speed bumps, carts, children and dogs in the street not allowing for any movement faster than 20 mph.

When we arrived around 1:00 pm. We jumped onto the ferry and started talking to all the locals to get the scoop. Well, the scoop was we were too late for any tours. Apparently the tours head out at 7 am and by now the water was too choppy. That's just wrong. That and they said the BEST BEST time to be there would be in July. WHAT? Ugh someone needs to tell all those tour groups in Cancun they need to get some facts straight. They also added salt to the cut by saying "oh yes, you can see swarms of whale sharks, dolphins, manatee, flying stingray and flamingos." I'm telling you, I pictured a crazy aquatic zoo with tiny humans swimming in their mist. Looks like I'm heading back for a short weekend trip someday.

Disappointed and determined to make the best of our long journey we rented what I call a "go cart" and hoofed it around the island to check out as much as we could. The beaches were empty and the hotel zone was absolutely quiet. Perfect place to disconnect from the world completely. Once Andrea saw the stretch of endless beach she had to jump off the cart and touch the water. The sand was like pudding between your toes. We then parked and walked across the stretch of water to a sand bar in the middle of the ocean (where all the flamingo rest).

Tired and needing fuel we went to a recommended restaurant that specialized in sea food and ceviche. Javier's meal was so good! He had a tall class of shrimp soup, a side of crackers and afterwards a plate of ceviche tacos. Mmmm.

Before catching the ferry back to the main land, we bought home made ice cream and parked our cart on the beach to watch the sun set. Beside us, local fishermen got high while gutting their day's catch. Oh island life.

Rio Secreto Tour. A River With A Secret.

2011-06-16T05:42:00.000-07:00

One of the many things I wanted to do on my recent trip to Mexico was to swim in fresh water caves and cenotes. I knew of one company, Rio Secreto, that was known for their awesome tours of an underwater river. It was something new and something that probably wouldn't even be allowed to run in the United States. So I had to do it.

The tour started out with a 20 min bumpy and deathly hot van ride into the jungle. Once at the destination, you had to shower to rinse off any chemicals and oils that may damage the delicate cave once inside. Then we were suited up with water shoes, wetsuite, life vest, helmet and head lamp. Before the tour had started they asked if anyone was claustrophobic. I didn't realize what that meant exactly till I was fully in my wetsuite, life jacket and helmet and walking for 10 minutes through the hot jungle sweating my balls off and not able to take a deep breath for the life of me. My boobs and butt weren't even able to breathe! Now if you know me, I'm a creature of comfort to the 10th degree! This whole situation so far spelt trouble......and that I could never be a scuba diver.

Halfway through the jungle walk we stopped to get a blessing from a Mayan priest. It's Mayan tradition to ask permission before entering the cave, a cave that holds a portion of Mexico's drinking water. Imagine the importance of not upsetting mother earth. He chanted his prayers at the alter and then drifted the holy smoke on all of us with a feather. We were free to go in. I hate to use the word surreal but I think the word is fitting for what I'm about to experience.

Finally the entrance to the cave was in sight and all I wanted was in and to not think about my tight body hugging suite. The one big rule for all those on the tour was to NOT touch a single thing. But what they didn't tell you was how impossible that was. The floors were uneven and the only light you had was a tiny lamp on your helmet to see. So of course, on entering the cave we all touched the walls in order to not kill ourselves. And then inside I had one of those "I'm falling and I can't get up" moments and my legs got all kinds of limestone scratched. But it was just a scratch and I took it as a nice little souvenir to take home.

Besides the extremely funny gay guy in our group that thought his wet suite made him look fat, the best part of the whole tour was swimming in the clear blue freezing water and just bobbing up and down like ducks in life vests in it's depths. The cave was beautiful and we were miles underground swimming in it. The whole southern peninsula of Mexico is one giant layer of limestone and when it rains, the thin soil soaks it up and then lets it trickle into the caves below making for a symphony underground of water droplets. After years of this, stalactites and stalagmites are created and the water drops look like diamonds on the surface. When we were there it hadn't rained for a while so the water was lower and it was much quieter. We all sat in a semi circle, turned off our headlamps and sat in the most defining silence I've ever heard.

And of course, a tour in Mexico wouldn't be a tour in Mexico without a shot of tequila to warm us all up at the end. The tour lived up to it's name. Do I dare say surreal? Yes, I think I can.

(Photos 2 & 3 from Rio Secreto Facebook)

The Split On Caye Caulker Belize

2011-05-16T20:16:00.000-07:00

Soundtrack to this post: http://youtu.be/q46zIMnE92E

I think my friend Chance would have to agree with me that the afternoon we spend being lazy, sipping on cold drinks and cooling off in the light blues of Caye Caulker was the best idea ever. We had been staying the past couple days on the larger island of Ambergris Caye in the beach town of San Pedro but we wanted to see what else was out there island wise. So we took a 20 minute boat ride over to Caye Caulker, walked the quiet sandy town and didn't really find much of anything. For all the hype about this island I figured there would be more. The town just seemed to be rows of bungalows and gift shops and nothing more. But we were determined to make it worth the $12 boat ride.

Erika had read in her guide book the day before that there was an area called "The Split" that is said to have good swimming, tan bodies and good drinks. It was a part of the island that had to be cut so that boats can have their way through. After having misled a group of hippies a few minutes before (they thought we knew what we were doing) we finally found it. We knew we hit the spot when a large sign read "The Lazy Lizard" and behind it were all the bodies sprawled out sun bathing. Hot and sweaty from walking the entire town, we jumped in.

After our body temps were set back to norm it was high time to quench the thirst. The Lazy Lizard bar ended up being anything but lazy. These bartenders were top notch. They found you beaconing from all corners of the bar, got your order, made it right in front of you with fresh fruits of all kinds, fancied it up with different colors and WALA! Heaven in a plastic cup. Why yes you can have a tip senor!

Now when they talk about atmosphere, this place had it. The ocean was two steps away, names were carved into the bar stools, Bob Marley music was blaring and the locals were gathering. One Rum Punch in and I'm feeling good....I mean happy.

The rest of the afternoon went like this: Sip our drinks, talk to hippies, take a dip, listen to music and repeat. As I floated on top the salty water I could hear the music echoing through the water and into my ears. My our only worry that afternoon, don't float into that fisherman's line.

Now if only I could repeat the whole day.

The In-Between

2011-03-01T10:15:00.000-08:00

When it comes to travel, I'm a huge sightseer. I admit it. I need to say I've been there done that. But what I have noticed is that when you are buzzing around trying to get to those destinations, you're missing out on all the moments that could happen in-between. It's the in-between that keeps me traveling and loving it. It's the in-between that is the ultimate souvenir.

My Top 10 In-Between Moments:

1. In-between biking the streets of Belize and snorkeling the depths of Shark Rey Alley, it was the canon ball jumping contest w/ the local kids that was most memorable.

2. In-between a full day of airports & a welcome party, it was the engagement ring that was slipped onto my finger on the heights of Christo Rey mountain Gto, Mx.

3. In-between this ¡Ole! and that ¡Ole! at my first bull fight in Mx, it was the local sitting behind me asking if I was the reporter that he'd seen at other arenas in Spain & Mexico covering the Matadors. Why yes! ;-)

4. In-between dodging chicken buses in Guate & sleeping in a strange house, it was sitting with them on their couch sipping coffee, waiting for the electricity to turn back on.

5. In-between cramming 9 people into a small truck for hours and climbing Tikal, it was the 360° spin out on wet roads & just barely missing a cliff that was the most nail biting moment.

6. In-between a city tour of Arequipa, Peru and eating that nights llama, it was taking part in the crowded Corpus Christi celebrations. Brightly colored flower carpets and all.

7. In-between swaying in a hammock & talking to parrots, it was hanging out at the bar next door playing pool & drinking beer in the sweltering heat of Zacapa, Guate that can't be beat.

8. In-between Chichen Itza & tacos in Merida, it was the running out of gas in the middle of no where at night with only the stars for company.

9. In-between the chicken bone filled tamales & a Guate masked dance, it was shooting off New Years Eve fireworks from a rooftop under a volcano while sipping Chilean wine w/ my sister.

10. In-between meeting my sponsored child & playing a game of soccer in Guate, it was his father handing me his hand crafted sculpture & shyly saying "I don't know how to thank you."

This post has been entered into the Grantourismo HomeAway Holiday-Rentals travel blogging competition.

One Year Anniversary

2010-11-14T16:20:00.000-08:00

This time last year Javier and I were climbing in and out of these and in and out of that.

Then in and out of this and in and out of that.

Around that and in and out of this.

And then up and down this and up and down that.

Probably one of the best times of my life. Let's do it again. Happy Anniversary Javier!

The Travel Bug Has Bit Again

2010-10-29T15:16:00.000-07:00

It's come that time again when the travel bug has bit me and I can't seem to shake the idea that I need to be flying somewhere new, foreign and away from here. Everyday I go to work and I swear I have A.D.D. because all I think about is where when how I can figure a way to get a new stamp in my passport.

Pretty much what it comes down to is that I need a vacation. The problem though....is money. Before I was married I had all the control of the money situation and was able to save every dollar and penny and pay to have myself shipped to some new country. Now, it's a struggle not going to lie. Now I feel like I have to risk something to go and travel. But to me that's a must. Travel is part of me and if I don't get that 1-2 times a year injection of pure nomad-ness, I go crazy. I go hang out with my sister or friends and the only subject I can seem to talk about is - travel. I go home and just surf the web for hours of anything travel and the stacks of magazine pile up beside my bed. It's like a tension that keeps building and at some point - something has to be done!

For the first time, I don't know where to go. I have all these places on my bucket list but now that time and budget is in my way, I'm slightly lost. If there are any ideas out there of decently priced plane tickets or destinations that will fit into a 4-6 day vaca let me know. Shoot I might make it 2 weeks. In the meantime, I'm off to do more research.

Engagement Shoot With Jenny

2010-10-23T20:45:00.000-07:00

Can't wait till your wedding!

Discovering a Secret Garden in Morelia, Mexico

2010-09-29T19:25:00.000-07:00

Perched atop a mountain overlooking the city of Morelia sits the Villa Montaña Hotel. Greenery cascades over the walls of the hotel, down into the city. Inside, purple flower petals are sprinkled over the grounds, and green vines reach for the sky. Statues of fish, angels, saints, and lions rest on every corner keeping you company on your walk through the garden, while monarch butterflies the size of your hand brush your face. A piano player on the restaurant balcony above keys his way through familiar Mexican melodies, keeping your walking tempo at an energetic pace. Finally, at the end of the path, the trees part and a brightly colored refreshing blue pool awaits you. Welcome to Morelia's secret garden.

Via my article on Trazzler.

Just Horsing Around

2010-09-12T21:02:00.000-07:00

Since I no longer own my horse, I have found some creative ways to fill that void. A couple weeks ago I was able to snag a polo lesson. It started out on the wooden horse in a "batting cage", then on foot in a 4 on 4 game, then right up onto a horse. The whole next week my right forearm was dead and useless but the experience was great!

On Labor Day weekend Javier found me a horse race here in Kansas! It sure wasn't anything I expected. It was about a 20 min drive out into the country. Then out in the middle of some open fields in Halstead, Kansas there was a quarter of a mile race track. And these weren't just any cow poke horses....they were the real deal racing kind. Bets were shouted from side to side across the track and the horses flew by every 20 min throwing dust into the air. I just sucked on my Egg-Nog ice cream and enjoyed myself the whole afternoon.

Letting Go

2010-09-01T21:18:00.000-07:00

When I was about 11 years old my dad had promised me he would buy me a horse if had prayed the rosary for others for an entire year. Being the gullible human being I was (still am) I did just that. A year later I approached him with a slip of paper. I had written the start and finish dates of my 1 yr and had it stored away inside a statue of the Virgin Mary. He had to swallow his words.

It wasn't maybe a month later, my parents and I visited a farm out in Andover, KS where a lady bred Arabian horses. She showed us around, talked and then walked up to the fence and whistled. Seconds later the fields where full of a thunderous sounds. A herd of beautiful Arabians came running through the back woods, down a dry river bed and back up into the field before us. The youngsters jumped hay bales and the elder horses pranced right up to us in search for that evenings dinner buckets.

After a couple hours of talking and sitting around bored inside the ladies home, we headed home. Halfway back my parents informed me "we just bought you a horse." I had no idea. I was clueless as to what was being discussed the whole afternoon! I said "which one?" It was one of the 2 youngsters that had been chasing each other in endless energy. He was a 1 yr old chestnut colored Arabian gelding with a blaze down his nose and three white stockings. And he was all mine.

For the next 17+ years he was my escape from life. He helped get me out and about in public even though I was extremely shy and would have rather stayed a basement girl. I took lessons on him, taught him, traveled with him and went to horse shows with him. He was one of my two favorite hobbies. He was my pet just like a pet dog would be to anyone else. The closeness is still there and it's equally heartbreaking when you have to give him away.

The economy has been rough oh my family and I. We could no longer afford him so we had to sell him a couple weeks ago. I didn't want him to be sold to someone that lived outside the city or to some riding school. I was lucky, an old farmer bought him as company for his old horse and he said it was ok for me to visit. I am thankful and the thought of him buying my horse was comforting.

Blaze at his new home. Miss you already.

Travel Journal #5 - Street Food

2010-07-29T20:48:00.000-07:00

Food Carts - I love them. Half the time they end up making me run to el baño the next morning but sometimes it's well worth it. When I lived in México I always looked forward to eating at one of the food carts. It was like eating out but oh so much more friendly on the wallet. I think the experience is even more fulfilling then in a restaurant because you get to watch your food be prepared, slaved over and put onto your plastic sheet covered plate (they have found a way to not do dishes!). And a car? Who needs a car, just walk down the street and you're at the blocks hottest eatery. In Leon, Guanajuato I had the stations mapped out in my head and knew exactly which ones were rough on the gut and which ones left me wishing for more. I loved sitting at the stools, nose to the cart's plastic protective window watching the knife slice away and trying to decide which of the awesome extras to sprinkle or pour onto my taco. Every once in a while I still crave it like I crave a brownie. It's odd. But once you do it, you too will be hooked and it'll leave you whistling to the cook and saying "Un mas por favor! Muy rico."

These sketches are by Eduardo Yaguas on Flickr. They are set in Lima, Peru.

Sunday Chukkers

2010-06-29T21:31:00.000-07:00

On Sunday afternoon expensive cars lined up and rolled in. Ladies in their sun dresses, big floppy hats and heels grab their small dogs and sipped their wine. Men adjusted their hats and smoked their cigars. Miss Kansas even decided to show up. It was the opening game over at Fairfield Polo Club and the first chukker (period) had started. My mom had grown up on a polo field and had worked alot with the horses as a young girl and I had yet to even see a polo game. The Thoroughbreds (or as they say - ponies) raced from either end of the 300 yard long field and the mallets swung from side to side, hooking others and clubbing the ball up into the air. At halftime everyone stormed the field and stomped in the divots with champagne center field. It was a scene straight from the film Pretty Woman. I walked through the trailers and met a player on her break. She just happened to be a graphic designer at my old college. They even had some talented players from Argentina, one of the top countries for polo. Thank goodness the heat wasn't in the three digits because I had a blast. Maybe on another lazy Sunday I'll stop by and enjoy some more polo.

Interested in a polo school in Argentina? Learn from some pros and check out this link I found on this weekends magazine rack: http://polodays.com/

Oklahoma City Tour & New Puppies

2010-06-22T21:10:00.000-07:00

Yes, we are road-tripping again. This time it's through Oklahoma. And I'm not going to lie, Oklahoma is pretty dang bland. I knew that going into it, so I was going to try and find some stuff to spice it up. Plus, we weren't just going there to find adventure or entertainment and new life experiences (even though we had a little of that last one). We were going there to pick up a new member of the family. A little Sheltie puppy. And I just love him.

I had done some research to try and find dumb crap along the way to look at and make fun of, but I really didn't find a whole lot even worth my time. Jav believes that the US just doesn't have enough history (unlike Mexico) so we just have to make dumb museums out of random stuff we stumble upon. I think he's right. But what I did find was in Oklahoma City. We drove in late on a Friday night and checked out the Bricktown. It was my hometowns version of Old Town but with an interesting canal throughout and a hint of San Antonio's River Walk. It was actually really nice. It was dead for a Friday night but nice. They did have some well known bars though like Coyote Ugly. They even had some fun Water Taxis that took you around the whole Bricktown area for only $8. What I also liked was that everyone wasn't all dressed up like hoochie mamas at the bars. So I felt right at home in my shorts and tshirt.

But I think there is a reason I didn't see fancy girls flashin their goods. Oklahoma is very poor. And you can till that the bad economy really has hit the area hard. One step out of the downtown main area and it's pretty sad. Shoot, we even booked a hotel that is normally ok, well priced and doable and it ended up being up there with one of the worst hotel stays ever. Sure we were going really cheap with our budget but omg! Lets just say, we were tempted to just sleep in our car and had to buy new sheets at the Walmart in order to even sleep on the bed. But I must say, if you're into cowboys and the old Route 66 then you may love it. Just wasn't my thing.

The trip the next day got WAY better. I remembered last minute that the Oklahoma City Bombing Memorial was there and I had yet to actually see it in person. So we toured that in less than an hour and headed out to Western Ok to pick up the puppy. Here we traveled through Cherokee territory, the Santa Fe Trail and Route 66. The whole way back up North our new puppy just buried himself behind our necks and every nook and cranny he could find. I was glad to be home bound.

Photos 1& 6 - by Javier

Watch cool Bricktown Canal Video here.

Weekly Obsession: Photo Heat Maps

2010-06-10T10:44:00.000-07:00

Recently I ran across this article on PetaPixel called Big City Heat Maps. A guy named Eric Fischer went and collect geolocation data from sites like Flickr and Picasa and created these maps. The blue points represents photos taken by the locals, red points are tourists and yellow are points taken from people that couldn't be determined. It really does shows the "hot spots" of these frequently visited cities and it's very interesting to see it this graphic form. It's even fun to point out the San Fran bridge and Alcatraz and the many spots in Paris. I think it could also stand alone and make some interesting art, especially for map lovers like me!

Photo 1: San Francisco
Photo 2: Paris
See other photos here at PetaPixel

Quirky Kansas Roadside Attractions

2010-06-03T20:30:00.000-07:00

On Memorial Day weekend we had a good old fashioned family reunion to attend. Actually it was the first one ever. To add to the fact that it's a family reunion and they are known to be a drag, it was also going to be held in Ellis, Kansas. Ellis Kansas what? Ellis is located in NW part of the state and is about 3 hours from Wichita and 15 minutes outside of Hays. Still not sure where? Well, it's not all that important.

To spice up this road trip we decided to keep an eye out for any kind of roadside attraction. No matter the lame factor, we were going to do it. The one thing we were able to find, before our GPS decided to crap out, was Cornado Heights located in Lindsborg, Ks. It was a short drive into the country side and then up a 300 foot hill with 360 degree panoramic views. On top the hill was a park that included a castle. Inside where 2 stone tables and fireplace. A small staircase led to the rooftop. Musicians of all kinds love to come here and play inside the castle. Who knows why, maybe it's the acoustics? Outside the castle doorway was a large fireplace with round seating. And flanking the edges of the park were stone picnic areas jetting out from the walls and overlooking gorgeous views of endless flowing fields. Perfect for an afternoon picnic.

Cornado Heights really didn't have any historical meaning to it except that it was named after Francisco Vasquez de Cornado, who visited central Kansas in 1541 in search for gold. Yep, I believe this castle was made for pure fun. Actually, I think it was the best part of our whole 2 day road trip and family reunion.

Looking for some other roadside Kansas attractions with a quirky twist? Here are a few:

Try the Hutchinson Underground Salt Museum. I think you'd be surprised at how many odd movie memorabilia is stored there. For example, George Clooney's Batman outfit or the sunglasses from Men In Black.
The world's largest ball of twine located in Cawker City, Ks. If anything, this 12 foot ball is required for some good laughs on a boring road trip. Story is a farmer didn't know what to do with the extra twine found in his barn so day after day, he just kept rolling it up. Enough said.
The Garden of Eden in Lucas, Ks. We saw the sign for this place heading West but missed it heading home. But from my research, it seems to be a house with ivy-covered concrete figures of Adam and Eve and children all around. This creepster house will for sure give you some nightmares. Great for the children!
The Worlds Largest Easel & Sunflower Painting in Goodland, Ks. As an artist myself, this is at the top of my list of odd things to find on the side of the road in Kansas. The sunflower is the state flower and Goodland is the center of the sunflower industry - fitting I suppose. So be sure to take an "I've been here photo" and look dwarfed next to this piece of art.

If anything, these roadside attractions are good for a laugh or even to just realize how many strange bored people actually do live in this world.

Let's Colour Project

2010-06-02T21:04:00.000-07:00

Here is a nice community video project called the "Let's Colour" project. The video was shot for four weeks in Brazil, France, London and India by the award winning director Adam Berg. I enjoy inspirational videos like this. Man, that must have been an amazing amount of paint for sure!

Video found here.

Other images can be found here.

Featured In The Knot Magazine

2010-05-31T20:24:00.000-07:00

The summer issue of The Knot is out and Javier and I have a featured article in it! I had forgotten all about it till Javier reminded me as we walked past the magazine rack at Borders. We opened it, quickly flipped through the pages and there it was! It's the honeymoon issue and my photography and our interview was lookin good. The editors probably could have picked a better profile shot but who's complaining right? Only two other couples were interviewed (California & New Zealand) and then there is us - México. It includes a summary of one of our trip and then some extra travel tips for those thinking about heading South. Anyways, woohoo! Onto the next magazine!

CFCA: Little Fernando

2010-05-25T16:20:00.000-07:00

It was Javier's first day in the States and we both had the opportunity to work a few tables at a Christian Foundation for Children & Aging sponsorship event. And guess what? By the end, we were sponsoring a little boy from México. I knew I wouldn't be able to bear working the table and seeing all the many folders of unsponsored children. So, we are now the new Godparents of this little 2 year old boy: Fernando Daniel CobarruviasEstrada from the village of Nezahualcoyotl. There is no doubt in my mind that we will be meeting this little guy soon.

The event ended up a great success. We were able to get 116 children sponsored all in one morning with the help of Fr. Jerry Beat (the priest who introduced me to missions/travel). I was kinda surprised by the number, it was a good 3 digit number! CFCA has also made it even more personable to sponsor a child. On their WALK2GETHER site you can now see photos of the kids needing sponsored and can specify locations and birth dates, if you so wish. Even if you don't think you have the funds to sponsor a kid for $30 a month, I dare you to just try it and you will naturally get something in return. I have been doing it for almost 10 years now and even when my income was low, I have never regretted it.

Visit their main page here: www.cfcausa.org

Or visit the sub site here: www.walk2gether.org

See other related posts here.

Photoshoot With My Horse

2010-05-18T21:00:00.000-07:00

My sister and I had a very fast photoshoot out at the farm before the sun went down a few weeks ago. The lighting was perfect. She did an excellent job at changing how I view the old place and making it more interesting through the photos. I was excited because I was really wanting some new pics with my horse and she read my mind. The last foot shot is my fav.

Post Wedding Puerto Vallarta

2010-05-15T14:07:00.000-07:00

I recently developed my underwater camera and got some additional photos from my Puerto Vallarta, Mx wedding. It was the day after, the sun was out and the family and friends were ready to have some major beach time. There was no need to look dolled up, no appointments to be at and no reservations. Javier and I woke up late, put on our matching soccer jerseys (like all nerdy newlyweds) and headed out. Everyone was playing volleyball, swimming and of course drinking all the all inclusive drinks possible. We had come to the party too late. Who knew we would have slept in so long? There was no way we could catch up, but we were going to try. I think the best part of the whole day was sitting in our little pow wow under the umbrellas telling stories and laughing hysterically. Oh I miss it. I have some really great friends.

Weekly Obsession - Gigapixel Images

2010-05-12T11:04:00.000-07:00

I love how photography is catching up with technology in new and different ways. More and more these gigapixel panoramic images are coming out and they are awesome! You can pretty much surf a city from a bird's eye view and get to know a place without even stepping foot there. And it's always fun spotting people doing weird things. Above I have pictured Dubai, Harlem and Prague. Some other fun ones are Dresden, Yosemite, a coral reef and the Swiss Alps. Oh and be sure to check out a past post with Paris!

Images & Links found on Wikipedia

Travel Inspiration #15

2010-05-06T22:26:00.000-07:00

“One’s destination is never a place, but a new way of seeing things." - Henry Miller.
A beautiful tree in the courtyard of Morelia's Cathedral

Wedding In Morelia

2010-05-04T20:24:00.000-07:00

Javier and I were in Morelia for a cousin's wedding and weddings in Mexico are always a party. It started with a beautiful church with a pink interior, gifts for everyone, lighting of paper lanterns (thank goodness none of the trees caught on fire with the sudden wind), a large band, a mariachi band, dancing, dinner, a candy bar and oh don't let me forget - a stilt dancer. We left the party at 3 a.m and the party continued without us. Catholic weddings in Mexico I think are always so beautiful. ¡Felicidades!

Photos 1-4 by Javier V.

Photos 5-9 by me

Hotel Review - Villa Montaña, Morelia

2010-04-27T18:16:00.000-07:00

On my trip to Mexico last week, my husband and I stayed at this beautiful hotel called Villa Montaña in Morelia. Morelia is the capital of Michoacán and located between Mexico City and Guadalajara and I think this hotel was definitely a small gem in the mist of a seemingly day to day city. As we arrived and passed through the entrance and beyond it's walls, you see nothing but blooming trees and floral of all colors. Compared to the outside, it was like entering a secret garden. It was quiet except for the singing of birds, the purr of a cat and the sweet smells of greenery wafted past your nose. Our bags were taken care of as we promptly were set up with a room in a massive colonial styled lobby with all of my favorite type of decor. The designer in me wanted to ask to take the rustic wood reception desk home.

I had been in airports for 8 hours and a bus for 3 and needed some food. We quickly found the hotel restaurant with the help of piano music echoing through the garden. We oooo'd and aaaa'd then ordered some food and sat out on a large deck overlooking the city. Oh did I mention the hotel is on top of a mountain with a great view? Sure is! But back to dinner - my fetachini alfredo and Jav's steak was delic!

The hotel staff was always very courteous and helpful. Not once did they seem to not have us totally in mind. They were there to serve. The room was delightful and cottage like. Many rooms included a fireplace, flat screen tv, robes and slippers! Oh and even a bath tub! A bath tub in Mexico!? Get out!

Each room was it's own building, away from distracting noises. The pebbled walkways were sprinkled with flower pedals - almost like they were put there daily for guests. At the bottom of the hill was the pool. It was a bright blue in contrast with the grey of the city in the distance. The temperature was perfect for soaking in. No need to creep into this basin of water. But wait, once you were tired of swimming those laps, there was a spa right next door to cure the days achy muscles. It was like a tunnel to serenity. You enter worn out but come out like you had slept for 8 hours (so they say). Adios Villa Montaña, you were a breath of fresh air, an oasis in the middle of a concrete city.

Photos by me.

Back To Mexico!

2010-04-16T00:07:00.000-07:00

Onto México I go tomorrow morning and I can't be any more excited. I get to see Javier for the first time since Christmas and I can't wait to be in his arms. I'm heading down there this weekend to attend the wedding of his cousin and because of that, I get to visit a new town - Morelia! From the pictures I've seen, its going to be nice. Plus, I just learned we get to stay in this fancy colonial style hotel named Villa Montana. Its placed on top of a hill with gorgeous views of the city. Hope there is time for a little splash in the pool!

Photo via Drake and Cavendish

Ideas For Haiti

2010-04-12T22:15:00.000-07:00

Shakira has been working in Haiti this week with Barefoot Foundation preparing to build a school in Port-au-prince. In her own country of Columbia, she has already spent thousands of her own dollars building a school and noticed a need in Haiti as well. With hurricane season on its way, I sure hope more people are finding the shelter they need. Read her thoughts on her trip here at Shakira.com

Also check out some artists work from around the world that have come together to create this collaborative art project with all proceeds going to Haiti through World Vision and A Beautiful Idea. A handful of Etsy artists were givin a select number of colors and were told to come up with their own idea of "Love Wins". Check out some of the work at Promise Tangeman - lovin the idea and really digging the image on the left above.

Travel Inspiration #14

2010-04-10T20:33:00.001-07:00

"Once you have traveled, the voyage never ends, but is played out over and over again...the mind can never break from the journey" - Pat Conroy (via @travelblggr)

Preparing flowers for mass.

Photo by me.

My México Wedding - Puerto Vallarta

2010-04-08T18:14:00.000-07:00

Photos By:

Me: 1-3, Javier Villegas: 5-6, Andrea Gnad: 9, Ana Luisa: 4, 7-8, 10-14, 16, Ben B: 15

Weekly Obsession - A La Carte

2010-04-06T21:07:00.000-07:00

I just ran across these beautifully hand drawn maps via Notcot and I'm in love. I am incredible jealous of those that can sketch such wonderful things from their travels. Well, hand drawn maps I think are even more fantastic! I just drool over this stuff. A La Carte offers maps from Barcelona, London, Munich, New York, Paris, Shangha, Tokyo, Vienna, Washington, D.C. and Zurich. These maps are a combination of "guidebook, tourist map and a piece of art all in one." It's kind of like a friend of yours that lives in that particular place hands you a map with all the hot spots, interesting tips, things off the beaten track and what to do and see. Perfect for those spontaneous adventurous Flashpackers and journal keepers alike looking for the best kept secrets. What a great way to make a memory. Shoot, time to place an order.

Buy maps at A La Carte

Handmade Portraits

2010-04-02T19:38:00.001-07:00

Lately I've been having a really hard time enjoying being a graphic designer. When you are constantly designing things that aren't for you, it's draining and frustrating. I know I love design and I know I'm good at it but for a long while now, I dread having to go to work and do it 10 hours a day 5 days a week and not be proud of anything only because you have no control over the whole situation. I found this video via A Cup Of Joe about a photographer named Sharon Montrose. She gave me a hint of inspiration. Maybe I really do need to get myself a little side project that I'm truly proud of and enjoy, just to get through those Mondays through Fridays.

Oh and that giraffe is just so dang cute!

Video can be found at Etsy

Prints can be bought and found here

Las Marietas Islands Puerto Vallarta - Part 2

2010-03-30T17:16:00.000-07:00

The best part of our tour to Las Marietas Islands was this secret beach. To get there you had to dive through the waters that rushed through a rock wall and pop out the other end (see background of 1st photo). It was only possible when the tide was down and we still had to be careful and keep our hands above our heads so that we weren't slammed into rock with the help of a wave.

My sister and I were the last ones in and we noticed everyone was floundering around on the beach like beached whales. What we didn't know was that the pull of the waves back through the tunnel was so strong no one could keep their footing. We all sacrificed a few "sand burns" as we rolled around laughing hysterically. The echo of our laughs were heard all the way back on the boat where my dad stayed behind. We all marveled at the sparkling blue water and the fresh patterns in the sand made by crazy waves. As you looked up at the ridge of earth circling you, you couldn't help but feel you were experiencing a scene straight from the movie The Beach.

Las Marietas Islands Puerto Vallarta - Part 1

2010-03-27T18:50:00.000-07:00

Here is a little photo essay of our pre wedding day gringo outing. I was thinking about doing some zip line adventures but I knew my back probably wouldn't handle it well. But on the other hand, I had gifted two of my good friends with entire snorkel sets for taking the time and money to come down to Puerto Vallarta, México. So I figured we need to put that equipment to use. Plus, what's a vacation to México without any ocean/beach activities?! So we started at the PV Marina and found a fisherman that was willing to take us out on his boat, feed us beer and let us use his equipment. There was no way this trip was going to be bad.

It was about 9 am and the beer was out. The party started early. We drank and drank on the 45 min boat ride before we hit our destination - Las Marietas Islands. Snorkeling and beer probably wasn't a good combo but who cares. After a short boat tour through some small caves, high waves and other small island, we jumped out into the cool blue waters. We had 4 people on this trip that had never snorkeled. One of them (Nicole) had never even seen the ocean! Nicole was the first to jump out of the boat and we all turned to hear screams of pure excitement.

After the trip was all said and done, we did some fishing on the way back to the mainland. Now, what I didn't come prepared for was the motion sickness. The boat had slowed way down and was weaving around so the fishing activities could be had. This was the one trip I actually thought I was really really going to have actualy barf. It literally was in my throat. Usually I could keep the feeling down in my stomach or just my head but this time I was hanging over the edge of the boat. The group finally felt sorry for me - the bride - and decided to go home. Sorry Erika, no banana ride.

All together the trip was about $300 and that was a bargain! Trips likes these (with all that we were promised) usually cost around $800 - $1,000 All that for so little. It was amazing and topped everyones charts. My dad even got to do his dream fishing and caught a Mahi Mahi. We were all so pleased with the whole thing - even the boat caption (he kept the Mahi Mahi for a BBQ that night).

Next post about this trip- the hidden beach.

Photos by me.

Travel Inspiration #13 - Guanajuato

2010-03-16T22:27:00.000-07:00

I miss it there. I miss the constant sunshine during the day and the soothing rains at night. I miss my apartment on top the hill viewing all the world below and the predictable gusts of wind that blew through our windows the same time every evening. I miss the humming birds, the music and the colors. I miss the coffee breaks in town. I miss enjoying life and everything I learned while I was there. You never know what you have till it's gone. Now isn't that the truth. Guanajuato, Gto México

Photo by me.

Panoramic Paris

2010-03-15T11:00:00.000-07:00

I have never been to Paris but it is on my wish list for someday. Although, it's not really high on that list but this photo by Bruno Méndez kinda makes me think twice about maybe movin it up the list a little bit. And same with this really cool panoramic view of Paris in HD! I'm really enjoying the 360 degree views I'm finding out there on the web (for example Haiti's 360). It's almost like you're there!

Tea For Two - 2

2010-03-14T20:44:00.000-07:00

This is one of my sisters shots. Cheers!

Tea For Two

2010-03-09T19:39:00.000-08:00

This weekend I was a photog assistant for my sister's Alice In Wonderland photoshoot and this girl went all out on the atmosphere and setting the scene, I was impressed. We packed up about 3 suitcases full of stuff and carted it through a park and crawled into an open hole in the "forest" as the little girl named it. We set the table, hung the lights and lanterns, placed the cupcakes/cookies/sandwiches, poured the tea (aka apple juice) and I kept the little 3 year old happy while my sister snapped the shots. As my sister went to work I too tired to snap some behind the scenes shots and a couple of my own. These two were my fav. Oh and I can't resist food photography - love it. So after a little singing to Hanna Montana, dancing, a brief episode of "i have to pee!", branches randomly stabbing uncomfortable places, and a walk back through the forest home, we had a fun tea party.......says the 3 year old.

Photos by me.

Lost Love: Jack & Kate

2010-03-07T15:14:00.000-08:00

I caught up on last week's Lost the other day and it was a good one. I think the Smoke Monster brings back the creepiness to the show that I needed - like it was in the first couple of seasons. I even had a dream that night that included the Smoke Monster but in mine it was a glittery pink color.....don't ask. I did find this photoshoot from Entertainment Weekly and I was thinking "is this a hint to whats to come? A romance between Jack and Kate?" But I doubt it. I understand there probably isn't room in this intense show to develop more of a romance like this. But I could only hope. I'd even take the innuendo that life after the island does include the both of them together. I guess we'll see. But right now, I'm more interested in this Smoke Monster!

PS - I think Evangeline Lilly just has that natural beauty. And her name is cool too.

Let The Party Begin

2010-03-02T18:21:00.000-08:00

It was three days before the wedding and my dad, mom and I all decided to fly into Puerto Vallarta early in order to have a little vacation and finish up any last minute details. After we landed in PVR I noticed the whole plane was filled to the brim with retired folk. Apparently this tourist destination was the old person's Cancun. As I waited in the customs line, everyone kept eyeballing the large white garment bag I was holding and didn't bother to hide it. Why yes I am getting married and oh, you over there, stop trying to cut me!!

Getting through customs was a little difficult. Besides our suitcases, we also had a large moving box filled with fake flowers, pounds of packing popcorn and odds and ends to make a wedding pretty. And guess who tried to confiscate all of it? Yeah. I had to flash my white dress around in order to keep it all. "No sir, we are not selling these good, it's for my wedding!" And then I was called back to the passport counter because I guess my name was on file and sent some kind of alert out. I blame the whole Civil Marriage/Tourist visa incident back in September. But all was good and I was sent off again without any questions. Meanwhile, my slightly nervous parents were confused and lost with the whole airport procedure.Then I of course get chewed out for being on my cell phone (btw I was only holding it, hadn't yet called anyone). Snap... I can never go through any airport without there being some kind of drama. I guess my ora screams

"she's a trouble maker, get her".

But after that it was smooth sailing. Javier had promised to pick us up - that is after he said he decided to stay at the hotel drinking by the pool instead. But he's a jokester and greeted me with a big big hug in the main hall of the airport. Its the best feeling in the world to be reunited with that person you love after not seeing them for months at a time.

The ride there my dad saw truckloads of police riding in beds of trucks suited in protective armor, guns held up against their chests, helmets and mouth guards with white skeleton teeth painted on the front. Great....just what I needed my dad to see. He was instantly asking questions. But what he didn't know was that the president of México was just in town and they were the extra security AND we were right next to a check point. It's all good dad, it's all good.

Javier faked my dad's b-day just so that we could get a fancy dessert.

The cab driver dropped us off at the front of our hotel, Samba Vallarta. This was my second visit to the hotel so I knew I'd have a good time and it was going to be a great experience for everyone. As you walked into the atrium, right away, you see the pool, the drinks, the sun, the ocean, the swim suites, more drinks, tan bodies and the pure look and feel of how the next few days were going to carry out. But before all that, all I could think of is how much I wanted to kiss Javier. After that, I was good to go!

The first day was spent planning and making sure all our guests had a room and was paid for. By the way, we filled up 3/4 of the hotel with our guests! It was going to be a party no doubt. The next day I anxiously awaited the arrival of my sister and two other good friends to fly into PV. The problem was, they too where coming standby. They ended up not getting on the first flight and had to spend an entire day in an employees lounge laying in leather recliners and watching Twilight. Man they had one rough airport stay - not. But the second flight, they were in! When they arrived at the hotel, they were greeted with hard liquor and had hilarious stories to share. It was one girls first time out of the country - and she was crazy excited! Ohhh man, let the party begin....

Sister and two friends with their prized standby tickets.

Travel Journal #4

2010-02-28T22:24:00.000-08:00

I always love the look of pen and watercolor.

Illustrations of Australia by Joaquin Gonzalez Dorao

Drinks Around The World

2010-02-26T12:00:00.000-08:00

So it's Friday, insert happy dance. I have a little dinner tonight for a friend's birthday, thinking I might need a drink for sure! And what better time to take a quick glance at some drinks around the world. Seeing this Pisco drink from Chile reminds me of the Pisco Sours I had in Peru and they were yummy. Which one of the drinks would you like to be having tonight? Salud!

Time Zone drinks found here

Anaheim Aerial

2010-02-24T19:58:00.000-08:00

Beautiful aerial shots by Trever Hoehne. Nothing like hanging out the side of a helicopter just to get some great shots like these. I remember some people at my last job having to have photographers do this just to get a certain shot for some Cessna Single Engine ad concepts. Nothing like hanging on for dear life and trusting totally in a seatbelt.

Emergency Vet Visit

2010-02-22T22:30:00.000-08:00

The cold weather has decided to try and slowly kill my Arabian horse this winter. And ironically he is having the same issues my dad had couple weeks ago and had to be taken to the ER. When I heard this news I was like "no not you too!" I'm not so sure I can handle something else like this right now. Even though I try and show a tough girl front, I can't always do it when everything rains down at once. My horse has always been this spunky crazy Arabian with a spirit that never fades. And now he just wants to stop eating and drinking water - causing his gut to tangle up and put him into alot of pain. Then he rolls on the ground trying to get comfortable. And once a horse is on the ground it's never good. So he has had a lot of babysitting this weekend and we decided to just take him to the vet today for IV treatment. He needed this IV bad, he was dehydrated and there is no way to make a horse drink. So I'm praying this Intravenous Therapy helps him out and I can have my horse for a bit longer.

And honestly cold weather, you can go now. You are doing me no good.

See him healthy at What A Stud

Did You Know: Oldspice

2010-02-17T21:26:00.000-08:00

This commercial actually added a little comedy to my day and made me giggle because I enjoy random humor that other people tend to not understand. This actor, Isaiah Mustafa, did a good job too. But check this one out and the other shower scene video here at www.oldspice.com

Update: See the making of the video here and how the commercial was all one amazing shot.

Look at your man, now back to me, now back to your man,

now back to me....

Expo Design

2010-02-16T22:11:00.000-08:00

Went to a Women's Fair Expo this weekend to scope out any travel agency competition and as I walked down about the sixth row of booths my eye was caught by this little one promoting plastic surgery. After I had walked past I realized "oh wait I made that booth! Like months and months and months ago but I made that!" So I had to back track and take a picture. Best little set up there I'd say. ;-) No really.

Funny side note about the project. When I was told to look for layout photos they suggested, "now look for some more chesty women". Well ok, I will do that. Awkward.

Angelina In Haiti

2010-02-14T16:52:00.000-08:00

Angelina Jolie was in Haiti this past week doing her Goodwill Ambassador duties gathering information by listening and talking to the people to figure out the best ways and procedures to help the people and children. Both her and Brad donated $1 million for Haiti victims. I admire how she continues to ignore rumors and news about her family to go and bring attention to those that need it. I hope her voice continues to grow and be heard for those that don't have one. Helping and fighting for those without a voice - now thats love.

See other photos and video here

35 Reasons Why I Love Javier

2010-02-13T17:24:00.000-08:00

01. he makes up tunes and sings me songs everyday

02. since the first day he met me he said "I want to be with her". Eight years later, after losing touch, he continued to think about me and now he has me.

03. the many nicknames he has for me, including sweetheart, my love, baby and yes even caca face.

04. his smile. It's a smile that brightens a room and shows his spirit.

05. he prays with me.

06. he talks me down from being crazy and upset about work and gives me a reason to be there.

07. he takes an interest in all my favorite activities like photography, snorkeling and travel for example.

08. he's tends to be good at whatever he takes up and tries.

09. he's a great cook and understands my lack of skill in the area of the kitchen and loves to make me meals.

10. he misses me all the time. It's nice knowing there is someone constantly thinking about you and wondering what you're doing.

11. everyone he meets loves him. He has a personality people want to be around. He knows how to make people around him feel special.

12. family is a big deal to him and he isn't afraid to stand up for them.

13. he insists on touching me while we sleep in some kind of way. Whether thats an elbow in my eye, holding my hand, or halfway overlapping me.

14. he is completely selfless and is always thinking about everyone else but himself.

15. he gave up his own business and home to move to Kansas with me.

16. he dreams with me about our future together.

17. the way he brushes his teeth with his arm up and out to the side.

18. he understands my silent moods and willingly takes part in those days I just feel like being an introvert. And for him, being an extrovert, I'm sure it's hard.

19. He's a dreamer. But he's a dreamer that always makes those dreams reality.

20. For a whole summer, he patiently took care of both my sister and I 24/7 and never once complained.

21. Before we were even engaged, he promised to take me all over Mexico. And boy has he lived up to his words.

22. For some reason, I like to hear him speak Spanish. But when it's towards me, I always have to have him slow down. haha

23. he's a real man and desperately wants to do nothing but take care of me. And the best part, he's all mine.

24. he's so excited about having a family with me and in a way it's refreshing.

25. he quickly offers to help me get stuff done that I'm afraid to do.

26. the way he's a morning person to my not morning self. He makes getting up every morning easier and eating breakfast romantic.

27. he knows how to have fun and make me comfortable in a public setting like clubs, parties and family events.

28. how attending mass with me is always something sacred to him.

29. how he likes to act like a child with me.

30. how he enjoys exploring unknown places with me.

31. the way I can easily get him addicted to chocolate, ice cream or anything else I go in and out of craving.

32. he has a strong interest in mission work and has even offered to live as a volunteer in a different country with me.

33. how he tries so hard to speak English for me.

34. how he says I'm beautiful even though I may feel fat or know I look like morning.

35. how this list is just the beginning and Javier will give me so many more reasons to add. Te amo mi amor.

Photo by Ana Luisa

Slowly Bringing Him Home: Immigration

2010-02-11T22:37:00.000-08:00

The other day we received an approval notice from U.S. Immigration and our lawyer saying that we have been approved to go onto the next level. What does this mean? That Javier is one step closer to being in touching distance from me whenever I want. We are in the home stretch and we both needed this news so badly. It's already been 6 months since I've left him in Mexico with only short little visits here and there. And the Immigration papers have been in the works for 4 months. We are lucky and are getting the paper work through faster than normal. But still, the distance is killing me and it's very hard emotionally and physically. I just want to be a newlywed already and never turn Skype on again.

Only about 2.5 months to go!

Travel Journal #3

2010-02-09T22:07:00.000-08:00

This drawing of urban life in Lisbon caught my eye. I enjoy the thin line strokes and the subtle coloring. Plus I always go crazy for pen and watercolor drawings. Reminds me when I had to do laundry in Leon and had to hang dry everything and how long it took for things like jeans to dry. And then when they were dry - they were as hard and stiff as cardboard. Not too fun to wear afterwards. The fresh smell of the summer air didn't quite rub off on it.

Photo via Flickr

travel Inspiration #12

2010-02-09T20:15:00.000-08:00

“No one realizes how beautiful it is to travel until he comes home and rests his head on his old, familiar pillow.”- Lin Yutang

Holga shots via Jose Villa , Mexico

A Version Of Heaven

2010-02-05T23:25:00.000-08:00

Close to what my heaven might look like. Tree top covered dirt roads, fog, horses in a fenced in field along the road, warmth and the smell of rain and freshly cut grass. Photos via a great photog - Jose Villa

El Mapa del Mundo

2010-02-04T21:30:00.000-08:00

Need a world map? I think you do! These people wanted a map but got tired of the same old boring maps and decided to make their own modern design. Up close I love how the counties are drawn out and the colors are pretty retro. On top of that it's all silkscreened. So for as long as supplies last it's all yours for the price of $60 plus shipping. And this reminds me, I need to start my globe and map collection.

Buy here at These Are Things

The Last Supper

2010-02-04T19:56:00.000-08:00

How many of you Lost fans have seen this promo shoot - The Last Supper? Some say it may not have any meaning or hints to it, but I think thats wrong. Lost is known for throwing little bits of suggestions all over their shows, web, promos and print. And Locke as Jesus? Not far fetched at all, he died and rose form the dead. Check out some other Last Supper promos like House, Battlestar Galactica and The Sopranos.

Update: The Lost Bingo was a hit! Of course it's hard to read in the dark while you're mesmerized by the mess of the story unfolding before you, but it was a fun touch to the party. I only lost by one phrase, "Severed Limb". Dangit.

Photo via http://abc.go.com/

The Faces Of Innocence

2010-02-03T21:22:00.000-08:00

Thought this was a good way to put a face to those living in campsites in Haiti, or anywhere else. I know in my head all I see are tents and tents and nothing else. When really there are these sweet little innocent faces trying to survive.

Photo via Big Picture

Lost Bingo

2010-02-02T15:54:00.000-08:00

Wanna play a little game of Bingo while you watch the season premier of Lost tonight? I have the perfect game for you. Heading out to a Losty watching party tonight so we can all geek out as a group. Lets see how fun this game will be!

Image found via Sci Fi Wire

Travel Inspiration #11

2010-02-01T22:49:00.000-08:00

I just love this photo. I'm pretty sure I gasped when I scrolled past it on my window. Shot in Brazil I believe. I would love just to drop by this location just to take a few snapshots. Not sure, but I bet I have something for those banners. ;-)

Photo via Jordan Ferney at Oh Happy Day.

The Rain Gods Have Spoken

2010-02-01T19:25:00.000-08:00

So I guess in the last week or so Peru has had some major rain fall and flooding as become an issue in some of Peru's top cities like Cusco, Aguas Calientes and Machu Picchu. Unfortunately the rain has caused some major mud slides and filled the Urubamba River destroying parts of the train tracks and cutting off traffic to Machu Picchu and the surrounding areas. So what does that mean? Many tourists were stuck in the tiny town of Aguas Calientes, sleeping on streets, sharing beds in hotels, eating all the food and water (because deliveries couldn't be made) and just making everyone just kinda restless. Some parts got so bad that thousands of tourists had to be air lifted and taken to safety, even from the ruins itself! So for a couple days straight, these lucky tourists got a beautiful ride through the Andes mountains. Having been there on those mountains myself, I could only imagine what great views they had.

On a side note, I think camping out on Machu Picchu for a couple nights would probably rock my world.

But the situation isn't something to be jealous about. The Peru Rail is the only way into the area to see this Wonder of the World and it's tracks were washed away! So the Peruvian government has decided to shut the park down and work on fixing them. This could be anywhere from 3-8 weeks! Businesses and hotels in the area are already feeling the pinch - costing the country up to $500,000 a day. Many employees have left to find work in neighboring villages because without tourists, it's pointless to be there. Without Machu Picchu, Peru's economy will suffer. It will be interesting how fast they will turn this problem around. Then again, Machu Picchu is probably thanking the rain gods because it can now take a breath of fresh air and not slowly be destroyed on a daily basis.

What's your opinion? Is this a good break for Peru's number one star or a bad one?

Photo via The Associated Press

CBS News Article

Gunajuato Engagement Shoot

2010-01-30T19:32:00.000-08:00

We wondered through the alleys of Guanajuato Mexico and kissed against blue, purple, orange and yellow stucco walls. The alleys were so narrow, the sun wouldn't dare creep in to over heat our bodies for the all afternoon ordeal. Rooftop construction workers stopped their slaving away to watch for a few relaxing entertaining minutes. Children selling chiclets always seemed to find us in the maize of buildings and chuckled as they peeked from behind the photographer. Who was this couple spontaneously making out every few feet? Yes we know, it was awkward for us too. PDA isn't so much my thing either.

We kissed under bridges, beside murals and inside Guanajuato's well known tunnels.

We even rested on massive stairways near the main plaza as onlookers took photos of us with their cell phones - as if there was a chance we were famous and they could say they too got the shot. With a backdrop like this, I'd say this engagement photo session was a success.

Photos by Andrea Gnad

This Week's Obsession:

2010-01-26T18:22:00.000-08:00

Art In My Coffee

Today, when I was surfing for some web design ideas, I ran across this lovely little site dedicated totally to....coffee art! How people can draw such detailed perfect figures in their foam and milk, I don't know. But I do know that I am jealous of this talent. If I was ever handed a cup of coffee with a bear starring back at me, I don't think I'd be able to drink it. Check out the other 600 some designs tomorrow when you're bored at work and really wanting a cup of coffee.

Photos via Art In My Coffee

Rio Fashion Shoot

2010-01-25T21:29:00.000-08:00

Warm, sunny, featherlight photography is really starting to grow on me in the past year. Check out this Rio de Janeiro fashion shoot from The Sartorialist. The photo on the left is going to be locked away in my dream book; enjoying life, walking down the beach with my dog and of course wearing a cut outfit.

Haiti: 360°

2010-01-24T19:41:00.000-08:00

Found this really neat post on CNN using this great 360 degree photography technology to document Haiti after the earthquake. Not only is the photography very interesting but it brings the viewer into the situation like you are there viewing your surroundings. Of course it's not like really being there but it's one step closer than a still shot or plain video. There are four videos and from those you can see the amount of damage, the chaos, the crowds of people and the horrible condition everything is in. You even get an insider view of a refugee camp.

On a side not - recently I have heard that the government is wanting to send all the people out into the country sides so that they can completely bulldoze the city and start from scratch. Not sure what the pros and cons of that would be but it's most likely something really needed.

Photos via CNN

This Week's Obsession:

2010-01-23T22:37:00.001-08:00

Tilt Shift Photography

I had seen this done on some videos a while back and didn't know what this effect was even called to research it. It made me go crazy with wonder! I just kept looking at the videos, that I knew were real, but everything looked like a miniature. But today I hit the jackpot and found my answers. What I thought would be a difficult process was actually very easy in photoshop. Just a little mask here, gradient blur there, a hue/saturation adjustment to top off the toy like character and you're there! Really nothing much is done to manipulate the photo at all. It's all just a trick of the eye. It's really about the narrow depth of field. With the foreground and background completely blurred out, you lose all sense of scale. It's an effect that works best when taken from above. And here are two samples I came up with. I love how this brings a whole new life to my photos!

Tilt Shift Maker : For those non photoshoppers.

Photoshop Tutorial: For the photoshop genius.

50 Beautiful Examples from around the world.

Photo locations: Guanajuato & Tulum, Mx

Million Meals

2010-01-22T23:10:00.000-08:00

Went out to the Numana and Salvation Army's Million Meal Packaging Event out at the Coliseum today and it was packed packed packed. I couldn't even get in! The line was out to the parking lot (in the cold)...and I was there early! There was a steady flow of cars into the arena. It was good to see so many people that are wanting to help package some much needed meals for those in Haiti. Wish we could do this for those in other countries because so many people would benefit and I know so many people would offer to help. Thank you to Inspire. Create. Bake. for letting me know about this event!

Poster via http://jonani.tumblr.com/

Getting Some Press

2010-01-20T21:32:00.000-08:00

This week has been one of those work weeks where you pull 12-14 hour shifts everyday and all you want to do is come home and crash. Like skip the dinner, skip the email, skip the new episode of Grey's Anatomy and just crash. Honestly I don't even know why I'm making a blog post right now. I should be sleeping! But I just wanted to tell everyone the good news. Javier and I are going to be featured in the Summer 2010 issue of a national magazine The Knot! The feature is about our honeymoon and trip through the Mayan Riviera and the Yucatán. It will include 15 beautiful pieces of our photography and an interview to boot. I just sent in the interview answers yesterday so I'll be sure to post when it hits stands! Hows that for PR? Get excited!

Inspiration #10

2010-01-18T22:13:00.000-08:00

Because I love his smile.

Peace begins with a smile. ~Mother Teresa

For Those In Haiti

2010-01-17T18:40:00.000-08:00

When I first heard the news of the 7.0 earthquake in Haiti and in Haiti's largest city, my heart dropped. I knew without reading any further that this was going to be news that brings you to tears and will be incredibly horrific. And this event as been pulling at my heart for a few days now.

For about 2 years I had done research on places to be a long term volunteer at and I had seriously thought about going and living in Haiti and working with a couple different Christian organizations like Friends of the Orphans or visit with Airline Ambassadors. And just today I read of volunteers that had died at the exact place I thought about volunteering. From my research I knew of the massive amounts of suffering going on in that country (one of the poorest in the Western Hemisphere) and with an earthquake on top of it I couldn't imagine the turmoil, crime, hopelessness and lost souls that will be created. The buildings there are like they are in any poor country - made of whatever you can find and without any kind of safety standards. It has taken me a few days to even write about this because it has bothered me and I want so much to be in a position to be able to go down and be there for the people. But I can't and I have to do what I can from here. I hope and I pray that something good will come out of this and that souls will not suffer but instead find comfort in something or someone. And I hope to God that relief efforts reach many and bring peace to many.

If you still feel as though this disaster in another country really doesn't pertain to you, I dare you to read through this blog, look at the photos and watch the videos and your mind will change. Make your world a bit bigger. Latest News & Updates On Haiti (Viewer discretion is advised.)

Photo via Latest News & Updates On Haiti

Organization I found a couple years ago: Yele Haiti

Our New Baby

2010-01-12T18:50:00.000-08:00

This is a picture my sweet sweet Javier took. I love that he has taken a liking to one of my favorite hobbies. And because of that we are now the proud parents of a new Nikon D40 Digital SLR camera (plus 2 lenses)! I had planned on taking my time and researching a new camera but this one kinda just fell onto Javier's lap and was a good deal. Unfortunately, I don't get to play with it because it's all the way in Mexico. And I probably won't be able to touch the new toy for a very long time. But I made a deal with him and he now has to send me at least one email a week of all the fancy photos he takes. That'll make me giggle inside.

Photo via Javier

Sultry Garden Romance

2010-01-10T18:24:00.000-08:00

These are two of the color schemes I picked from that I liked for my wedding colors. I chose the first one (Sultry Garden Romance) because it had that rustic spanish feel to it with that bright pop of color. Now was it very noticeable at the wedding besides the stationary and some flowers? No, not so much. It was a wedding in Mexico - I really didn't have as much control as I would have liked. But it was a good chance to exercise letting go and not being in control of everything. But I'm a designer and maybe it only mattered to me.

Photos via 100 Layer Cake

Boarding Pass Redesign

2010-01-06T17:07:00.000-08:00

Graphic Designer Tyler Thompson decided that Delta's boarding passes "make you want to scratch your eyes out" and its so true (along with every other airline). Not only are boarding passes just plain ugly, they are also ridiculous to try and read and find information in a hurry. Every time, I have to sit there and study these suckers for a few long seconds to see "shoot, what gate am I at?" or "I need to fill out these immigration forms like whoa and they want my what, flight number?" That requires some research. The color options probably wouldn't be doable on the airport's 70's style printers but these two above I love. They have the flight, gate, seat and zone right there for ya. I think he should totally take these to the airlines.

And thats what graphic designers are meant to do - change lifestyles and lives for the better. Why didn't I think of this?

All Dressed In White

2010-01-05T16:51:00.000-08:00

The next series of post will be about my wedding. What does it have to do with travel? Everything! It was a destination wedding, even for J, in Puerto Vallarta, Mx. So I thought I'd share a little bit about the preparation - because it was fun.

When I was living in Mexico, I decided to give dress shopping a try. Talk about hard when you can't express what you want in Spanish to the ladies lookin at you all butt naked in the dressing room. It was so awkward not being able to fill the silence. But I soon realized that Mexican women love their large puffy dresses and that was the last thing I wanted - to look like a 15 year old at her Quinceañera. So I decided to fly home and find the perfect dress.

The wedding was going to be in small Mexican chapel on the beach and the reception on the beach as well. So I needed a dress that didn't weight 80 lbs. I was aiming for the look of the Jim Hjelm ivory lace dress (first photo) and found the next two dresses to the right. I loved the slimming effect of the fabric, the lace, neckline, hair and the jewelry and thats what I went out to achieve. The second dress (Sottero & Midgley) was a bit out of my price range but looked awesome on me. The third dress was on sale (forgot the designer), had a beautiful lace pattern, trumpet train, was a good middle option for me and made me smile the whole time I wore it. I added a fingertip length veil, bought the dress that day and I was done!

Thank goodness...

Walk2Gether

2010-01-02T23:36:00.001-08:00

Four days ago a 73 year old named Bob Hentzen (founder of CFCA) started a walk for the poor that will cover 12 countries. It started in Guatemala and will end in Chile. Each day he will walk approx. 20-25 miles covering about 8,000 miles. In 1996 he walked from Kansas City all they way down to San Lucas Toliman Guatemala and this time it is about four times that. I spread the word only because I know this is being done for the poor and and this is big for them. I know the intentions are true and I know love will be brought to these people through this event.

"By walking with them, we are saying, 'You are not alone,'" Hentzen said. "We are listening to you and learning from you."

See day one of the walk - video here.

Browse the website here.

Follow his trip here.

New Years

2010-01-01T20:47:00.000-08:00

At this time last year my sister and I were galavanting around Guatemala. New years eve was spent joining the town of San Lucas Toliman in celebration with ancient Mayan dancing and crazy fireworks, visiting children's schools in Panajachel, eating mouth watering tamales, shopping in Antigua, getting car sick on long bus rides and just enjoying a holiday in a different country and culture all together. It was one to remember.

These past 2 years I have done way more traveling than I could have ever imagined. I really couldn't have asked for more. Once I started getting that anxiety that I needed to go somewhere - a trip was right around the corner. Then on top of that I found the man of my dreams. Could 2010 get any better? Lets hope so.

The video below was from our hotel balcony on New Years day. And those in Guatemala City were still in full swing celebration mode with their fireworks. When things died down, the volcano decided to erupt - leaving our year in a bang.

Also see this post

Inspiration #9

2009-12-30T18:45:00.000-08:00

"Love, having no geography, knows no boundaries."

Great photoshoot idea for a couple that travels alot or met in a certain country. Photo via Stephanie Williams

Feliz Navidad

2009-12-30T18:30:00.000-08:00

Doing a little Feliz Navidad dance for those walking

below the balcony - 5th street Playa del Carmen, Mx.

Merry Christmas!

Christmas At Tulum- Part 2

2009-12-29T17:23:00.000-08:00

Christmas At Tulum- Part 1

2009-12-28T19:26:00.000-08:00

What better way to spend Christmas day then at one of the best beaches in Mexico. First thing we did, jumped on a boat to snorkel in front of the Tulum ruins. Snorkeling has quickly became J and I's favorite past-time.

Tips for Snorkeling at Tulum:

1. Bring your own gear if at all possible. The boat captions that take you out on their boats are not at all professional and only have a "take what fits and works" selection of snorkel gear on their boat. Plus, it could be your excuse to bargain and pay less.

2. Go on a day that isn't cloudy. Cloudy days make for cloudy water. Also bring a solution to apply to your mask so that it won't fog up and add to the mess.

3. Go ahead and bring the alcohol! Like I said, these boat caption are not professional and I'm sure will say "hell yeah" if you give them a taste of that sweet nectar.

4. Have a swim buddy. It's very easy to get disoriented as you're busy having that starring contest with that odd creature below the surface.

5. If you find yourself not seeing a whole lot of sea life in an area, go to a totally different area. Don't feel like you have to stay where you were dropped off. Tulum did have some less populated areas but other areas were awesome and included fish and coral of all shapes, colors and sizes. Just keep an eye out for other boats on the move.

6. Price wise - don't buy tickets at the entrance of Tulum. The person there will say a snorkel trip costs 600 pesos (approx $46) and if you are Mexican, 300 pesos. Instead, if you are comfortable, go straight to the snorkeling booth on the beach and make them a deal. We have gotten as low as 150 - 100 pesos ($11/$7)! Thats what I call a deal for a 2 hour trip.

Other snorkel trips: Belize, Las Marietas Islands 1, Las Marietas Islands 2,

Our Little Guanajuato Tour Guide

2009-12-24T00:54:00.000-08:00

One of the cutest tour guides I've ever had. Even with all 10 of his rub on tattoos. - Guanajuato, Gto. Mexico

Beth's Story

2009-12-19T22:42:00.000-08:00

I recently watched a movie that has been out for a little while now called The Soloist. It's a movie that reminds you that all human life deserves respect and dignity. And those that are homeless are not always in that situation by choice. For 117 minutes you will be taken into their world. Great movie. It also included this short video clip called Beth's Story.

ICT Airport As My Gallery

2009-12-14T19:27:00.000-08:00

So I was walking through the airport recently and was pleasantly surprised to see a second billboard that I designed (at my old job) newly posted and shining for all travelers to see. The photoshoot on the bottom one was interesting. It included cranes, grumpy workers on their lunch break posing, heels climbing ladders, eye gear and lots and lots of yelling. But to top it all off, I was double surprised to see that nothing on my layouts were changed. Score for me! Twice!

Civil Marriage In Mexico

2009-12-13T16:26:00.000-08:00

Back in September I had to make an extra trip back down to México to have our civil marriage done. We had to rush and get this done 2 months before the actual wedding for the sake of getting J's immigration papers started sooner. In our case, we had to be married to start the paper work instead of just engaged. So, instead of wasting 2 months, we wanted to try and save our sanity a little and be 2 months into the process (6-9 months) by the time our church wedding came.

I had a 5 day window to do all of this. Remember, this is a process that takes about 2 weeks. And if one thing went wrong, we were in trouble. And guess what, something went wrong. Dang tourist immigration card and middle names! The whole week was us rushing around Leon, getting our blood taken, cutting lines, rushing around, sneaking around security guards, and begging immigration officials to push our paper work ahead of others (and thank goodness we found an awesome guy that was willing to help us).

In the end, we did it and we were so excited. Of course one of our witnesses almost didn't make it on time but we did it. Above is a photo of us signing our certificates and stamping our fingerprints right before we headed off to an office with a judge.

Oh on a side note - On my way back home, that same immigration card got me in trouble again, this time at the airport. Go figure.

Cristo Rey

2009-12-11T21:34:00.000-08:00

I quit my job, jumped on a plane and headed to León, Guanajuato México. I was going for three reasons - spanish school, to make my dreams reality and to be with a very lovely man.

We had met back in 2000 when he came to the states to learn English and lived with his Aunt. Naturally, because our families were friends, I was asked to show him around. Eventually we lost contact. But 8 years down the road, with the help of Facebook (I know, can't hate it always), we found each other again and this time, I wasn't going to screw it up. But a relationship over Skype just wasn't doing it for me. I had to be with him.

I landed at the airport in Mx. on a day that just happened to be Mothers Day and my birthday. I finagled my way through customs and right after was welcomed by his family with singing, clapping and cheering. The whole airport sang happy birthday. Without hesitation, Javier immediately ushered me to his car for an unexpected field trip - up a tall mountain topped with a large statue of Christ (think Brazil's Christ the Redeemer). After 30 minutes of driving up curving roads and dodging crowds of children jumping on the car for a ride, we made it to

Cristo Rey.

Under the statue was a small chapel and mass was just letting out. There Javier bought me a brightly colored delicate rosary, had it blessed and then opened his hand to reveal to me an attached engagement ring.

Best birthday ever.

(See this photo of us right afterwards.)

Designing For Others

2009-12-06T16:53:00.000-08:00

To get a little cash flow while I was living in México, I did some freelance work for an organization called Families Together. They were going to have a walk-a-thon to benefit children with disabilities and I got to design their poster. Last month they had a benefit dinner but I wasn't able to attend (because I was out on my honeymoon) but my business manager (aka my mom) did. Here she is accepting an award they offered me. It is so much more fulfilling designing when you know it helps others.

Posts From Mexico

2009-11-16T17:06:00.000-08:00

I have some crazy amounts of posting to get started on. I've been on the road since May and it's been one crazy ride. The posts will come from locations like Guanajuato, Leon, Puerto Vallarta, Merida, Cancun and Playa del Carmen - Mexico. So get ready!

Honduras Tourism

2009-10-25T20:26:00.000-07:00

Remember the recent kidnapping of the President? Well, that and the recent fighting has hit the tourism industry hard and is turning the countries economy upside down. The tourism industry has dropped 70% in the past 3 months - setting the countries economy back 10 years. Read a little bit about it here.

Once Upon A Time In Mexico

2009-06-10T13:04:00.000-07:00

So once upon a time (err a month ago) I quit my job and moved down to Mexico to be with a wonderful man. And now we are engaged! The above photo was taken a few minutes after he asked me. Whether the wedding is here in Mexico or the US and when is still up in the air. But besides that exciting news, my sister flew in about 2 weeks ago and we started taking spanish classes together here in Guanajuato, Guanajuato, Mexico. We'll be here in this picturesque town for another 2 whole months. I best be fluent at the end or I want my money back....I kid. No but really I better be fluent - my life kinda depends on it now. But, more updates on the trip to come.

New Years

2009-05-04T19:28:00.000-07:00

Yes I know New Years was like 4 months ago but I'm just now getting to it. The night started out with a special dinner and slide show and Andrea and I were pretty much the stars of the slide show. We had our own paparazzi the whole trip. When I sat down for dinner, I was ready to party. Afterwards there was a dance and firework show. Above is a picture of a crafted cow/bull with a person inside with fireworks shooting off of it. The day before I had busted it when I had kicked a soccer ball and it went crazy. Found out later I totally broke it and they had to start over. Oops. At least they thought it was funny.

Two boxes of Chilean wine later - we were up on the roof again shooting off fireworks of our own. We joined in with the town of San Lucas Toliman and brought in the New Years. After the crowd had left we hung out and enjoyed the first night of 2009 next to a volcano with a cool breeze and clear sky cluttered with stars till 4 am. Bliss.

My Favorite Village

2009-04-27T20:33:00.000-07:00

Scenes from my favorite village near San Lucas Toliman. And to get there you had to travel on a narrow dirt road through fields of coffee beans. It was a hidden little paradise.

This village had also been cleared out by a mudslide off a volcano. But these people were lucky enough to receive their very own well built home - as you can see in the 2nd photo. And the kids there were so happy!

I Bite My Thumb At Birds & Swine

2009-04-25T19:47:00.000-07:00

So guess who is going to Mexico for 4 months in as little as 15 days? That would be my sister and I. Yep heading to ground zero of the Swine Flu. This was a lovely piece of news that flashed on my screen this morning - gooood morning to ya. But you know what, there are cases of it here in my home state, so you can't always let things like that stop you from doing your dreams. I actually had the flu 2 weeks ago......never want that to happen again. So I'll just have to think twice about everything I do and hope and pray I stay in good shape. Now I'm off to go buy some Airborn, Tamiflu, hand sanitizer and maybe a flu shot for whatever slim chance it may help. Wish me luck!

Santiago Atitlan

2009-04-21T22:11:00.000-07:00

Boat ride on Lake Atitlan to the town of Santiago Atitlan. I always nab the front seat for the awesome views. Here we visited projects, walked around town, spent time in the crazy market with the locals, did some shopping and visited a town that is still in horrible condition after an attempt to recover from a deadly mudslide. The government decided to build temporary homes right back under the deadly volcano and 3 years later - no change. Way to put forth some effort.

Inspiration #8

2009-04-13T20:02:00.000-07:00

Our Rooftops

2009-04-06T19:25:00.000-07:00

In Guatemala, rooftops were our sanctuary, our hang out, and it was our "no trespassing zone" for those over the age of 30. It was a place for quiet moments as well as celebrations. It was a place were we would soak in the wonder around us, breathe in the fresh cool air and then smoke a cig or two. It was also our time to reflect on the day we just experienced. The chilled midnight wind would run through our bones but we were ok because it was our time to make new friendships, let loose, be immature and even sneak in a little of our friend - Ron Botran and raise our glasses and chant "here here Guatemala, salud!"

Side Note: We thought that 2nd photo would have been a cruel cruel email to send back home to the folks. ;-) It did cross our minds.

The Serpent

2009-03-27T17:21:00.000-07:00

I'm fascinated with Mayan, Aztec, and Inca history. So I'm always excited to learn the little secrets here and there about their awesomely creative, detailed, smart thinking. Here is something I just learned. This image was just taken at the spring equinox in front of the Kukulkan Pyramid (or "El Castillo") in Chichen Itza, Mexico, Saturday, March 21, 2009. If you look closely you can see that this Mayan pyramid was built so that the shadows of a corner of the pyramid would fall on a stairway and create the image of an illuminated serpent (see the left staircase). I may just be a dork but I think thats super cool.

Found via The Big Picture.

We Are In It Together

2009-03-14T22:56:00.000-07:00

Melvin & Edwin

CFCA

2009-03-10T18:03:00.000-07:00

As a Personal Outreach Advocate for Christian Foundation For Children & Aging (CFCA) I encourage you to sponsor a child. If you have been reading my blog, I write about how I have seen the results of sponsorship first hand. I have seen with my own eyes where the money goes. Not only does sponsoring help the child, but also the family and the community they live in. For only $30 a month you can make a child look forward to his/her future and make their quality of life that much better. I truly trust this organization and can say I personally know the President/Founder and have stood beside him amongst the many beautiful children being sponsored. So what is it....use the money for a couple beers on a Friday night and deal with the hangover the next day or truly change someones life? Some think that money follows the heart. But sometimes the heart follows the money.

Since I have been back I have already had a few friends sign up. Please, I challenge you. Start here or read their blog here.